Safety & anti-fraud
Parinay is built for marriage alliances. Use the same caution you would on any major Indian matrimony platform: go slowly, involve family where it helps, and treat red flags seriously.
Money and documents
- Never send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you have not met in person.
- Be suspicious of urgent requests—medical bills, customs fees, or travel tickets.
- Do not share bank OTPs, Aadhaar/PAN copies, or signed blank forms with strangers.
Privacy and contact
- Keep early conversations on-platform; be wary of pressure to move to private apps.
- Share phone numbers or home addresses only after you are comfortable and milestones fit.
- Use neutral meeting places first; avoid isolated locations with someone new.
Identity and meetings
- Verify identity in stages—meet in safe settings with family involvement when ready.
- Watch for mismatched stories, stock photos, or refusal to meet or video call reasonably.
- If something feels off, pause. A genuine alliance rarely needs secrecy or rush.
Harassment and reporting
- Report suspicious profiles, scams, or harassment—moderation workflows will tighten at scale.
- Block and disengage rather than arguing; keep screenshots if you need to escalate.
Partner search hygiene
- Cross-check basics (education, employer, city) before emotional investment; ask neutral follow-ups.
- Prefer gradual disclosure—share documents or salary proofs only when trust and milestones justify it.
- Keep family or a trusted advisor in the loop for major decisions; two calm heads beat one rushed one.
Red flags to pause on
- Refusal to meet in safe settings after reasonable time, or always cancelling last minute.
- Love-bombing plus an urgent need for money, secrecy, or moving fully off-platform immediately.
- Pressure to hide the alliance from people you would normally inform.
Grievance contact appears in the site footer. Horoscope / kundali matching and richer verification badges are on the product roadmap.